Dear Lynda,
I'm 32 and love pornography. As a young man I had an interest in it but I think most people do at some point when they're young. Then I started on chat lines, pornographic magazines and now the internet. I've got a great job, I'm healthy, good looking and I'm always successful with women. I've had many girlfriends, although I'm single at the moment. So why am I so obsessed with pornography?

Aggie Pratt replies: You are at least very conceited. You’re always successful with women? I think not. You say that you were interested in pornography before you started on magazines, it would be interesting to know where you got it from. Despite the fact that you claim to be 32 I don’t think you have really grown up. I think you should face the fact that you are pathetic, lonely and live in Ipswich. Start by being honest with yourself and you will find that the world will seem a much better place and your wrist won’t ache so much.

Dear Erica,
I have been having sex with two older men — and one of them is my dad's pal. I know I should stay away from both of them but I can't, it's too difficult. I am 16. Six months ago I got chatting to a guy I met in a pub. He is very good-looking and we got on really well - so well that I went back to his flat at the end of the evening. He said he wouldn't force me into anything I didn't went to do, which he didn't. He was very loving and gentle, and I had sex with him. He is in his early thirties but I don't see this as a problem. The sex is much better than with guys my age and he certainly isn't bothered about the age gap. I really like him but have only heard from him a few times since. He only ever phones or text-messages me when he wants sex. I always say yes but wish we could have a real relationship.
I didn't realise how bad I felt about this until his mate turned up at my house recently. He's in his thirties and also knows my dad as they work together. I was on my own in the house. My parents had gone out with my dad's colleagues so I think this guy must have known, although he said he'd come to see my dad. I asked him if he wanted me to pass on a message. He said "No" but he wouldn't mind coming in for a chat and a coffee. I felt flattered and let him in.
I made him a drink and we spent a couple of hours talking about everything. It felt so good to have a guy talk to me. We were sitting next to each other on the sofa and he touched my hair and then my cheek. He was really tender with me. I got more and more excited as he touched me and I knew what was coming. One thing led to another and we ended up having sex on the sofa. It felt so good to be having sex with someone who actually wanted to talk to me as well. I'm tempted to carry on seeing him and this other guy. I know I should steer clear of both but they make me feel so good. What shall I do?

Aggie Pratt replies: You really are a silly little cow aren’t you? Why do you want to entertain these men who are presumably comparing notes about you. Get pregnant and see which one runs the fastest. Alternatively get a grip and get a life.